Separation and connection

Here’s my latest contribution to RivertonMussar.org. Separation, or pure living, is a vital part of mussar, the Jewish pursuit of ethical transformation. But it’s suspect in today’s world because we disdain the holier-than-thou variety. Yeshua models a life of both separation and connection.

Separation begins within, as Messiah taught in one of his most famous—and challenging—sayings: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (Matt. 5:27–28). Likewise, Cheshbon HaNefesh instructs us, “Strengthen yourself so that you can stop lewd thoughts,” because defilement begins in the mind.

But how do we strengthen ourselves?

Mussar: Calmness

Here’s my commentary on Calmness, the Mussar emphasis for the coming week. For more teaching on Mussar, the Jewish discipline of character development, check out  www.rivertonmussar.org.

Calmness of spirit allows us to act, rather than react, when the pressure is on. In a moment of crisis, calmness is essential to doing the right thing.

Joseph displays great calmness throughout his story, especially at its turning point, when he appears before Pharaoh to interpret his dreams. It’s not hard to imagine the scene.